how does one make their life int0 what they want it to be? how does one draw out the path to walk on, how do they stick to it? how do they get out of bed when it's snowing? how does one find their mittens? how does one keep all the pieces together, so it is a home and not a house filled with stuff? a family and not people they live with?

or the real question is, how do i do those things? when will i learn?